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How to come together while being apart over the holidays

- December 18, 2020

Holiday traditions could be reimagined this year amid pandemic. (Nicole Michalou photo/Pexels)
Holiday traditions could be reimagined this year amid pandemic. (Nicole Michalou photo/Pexels)

The holiday season is a time of festivities, social gatherings, and making memories. Gift giving, eating special meals, and connecting with family members are all a part of the symbolic and emotional gestures we affiliate with this period.

Yet this year will challenge those rituals and comforts. Due to the global pandemic, many of our traditions and practices can鈥檛 happen in the same way they have in the past. This could be especially hard for students, many of whom have never had a holiday season away from family.

Martha Radice (shown right), an associate professor in the Department of Sociology and Social Anthropology, says the holiday season is important to people because it鈥檚 a time when they engage in certain rituals of significant to their cultural communities, some faith-based and others not.

鈥淲e take time off from our everyday lives, and we do things 鈥 typically with other people 鈥攖hat are repeated from year to year and attached to our cultural values in some way,鈥 she says.

New traditions and practices


To fill in some of the gaps in traditions and rituals this year, Dr. Radice suggests considering the possibility of introducing new ones.

鈥淚 think it鈥檚 very much worth it to consider new traditions鈥 she says. 鈥淧erhaps now before things get busy and hectic, sit down and think about the elements of the holiday rituals and traditions that are really important and how can we adapt them.鈥

To shape the holiday season to fit your needs this year, Dr. Radice offered up a number of ideas, including: 聽

鈥⒙犅 聽Online meetups with relatives over Zoom/Teams/Skype
鈥⒙犅 聽Secret Santa as a means of gift giving among families who can鈥檛 be together in person
鈥⒙犅 聽Eating together, when apart, through online meet ups or by making similar meals
鈥⒙犅 聽Reaching out to neighbours or other students that are here for the Holidays
鈥⒙犅 聽Sending Holiday cards
鈥⒙犅 聽Spending more time outdoors
鈥⒙犅 聽Volunteering

As Dr. Radice says, 鈥淥ne of the reasons that this is a season for celebration is that we do move from the days getting shorter and the nights getting longer, and then at the Solstice we see the days getting longer again. And there鈥檚 this sense of passing through the darkest day.

鈥淚 think that this year that metaphor is particularly poignant.鈥